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The Weak Ego’s Hunt For The Magic Pill

Monday, July 19th, 2010

I think most people don’t really want to change for the better.

We just want less pain and suffering, preferably with a quick “magic pill” that takes away the annoying symptoms so we can get back to “normal” again.

The culprit is my ego — more specifically my weak ego.

A person with strong ego accepts, learns and humbly moves through life, assuming that there is no “magic pill.” Just what is, is — deal with it.

A person with a weak ego suffers from entitlement i.e. “The world owes me a living.” and so lives in disappointment, anxiety and pain.

Eyes wide open. Risk nothing. Get nothing.
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From Dr. Jim Sellner, PhD., DipC. – The guy who works with you — one conversation at a  time — to create workplaces where people love to do their best and customers love to do business with you.

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Forget the 360 Go For the Throat

Thursday, July 15th, 2010

If you are REALLY serious about becoming more personally and professionally effective, do this. And it will not cost you big bucks.

But, you must be willing to experience your courage and put all your defenses away. (more…)

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Relationships, Disclosures

Saturday, May 22nd, 2010

Ok so we now have this rule that we have to disclose stuff. So here goes.

Relationships / Disclosures:

  • All information and content on my blog are reflections of my own mind — my own thoughts & opinions — I apologize for that in advance. Don’t take it personally, but you’re free to take it. (more…)
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Arrogant vs. Good

Sunday, May 16th, 2010

In the movie Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid, Butch and Sundance, after robbing a train, were being chased by a posse. Butch and Sundance could not shake them. At one point Butch turns to Sundance and says, “These guys are good!”

We have a fear of letting the world know what we are good at.
Problem is, if others don’t know what we are good at, our power and influence in the world is weakened. (more…)

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No Phone Zone, Seth Godin, Jamie’s Food Revolution: Models for Managing People

Saturday, May 1st, 2010

Managing people is usually done in the “when push comes to shove” model to get people to do what they are not deeply committed to.

Many managers burn themselves out trying to push the people rock up the hill. There is another way.

Jamie Oliver created the food revolution by engaging both the naysayers and yaysayers in his campaign.

Oprah Winfrey in January 2010 started the No Phone Zone movement to save hundreds of thousands of lives, not to mention more hundreds of thousands of maimed injured and guilt ridden people who have killed, maimed or injured themselves and their families.

Seth Godin the guru of the free book created a viral process that launched his books into the stratosphere of selling hundreds of thousand of copies and many more thousands following him on his blog.

Operating principle of managing people with pull rather than push: – create a movement propelled by people’s internal motivation to experience joy in their lives.

The old-world term for this process is word-of-mouth. The new-world vehicle for exploding word-of-mouth out into the world is social media.

1. What is being communicated.
In order to influence people’s decisions to voluntarily and enthusiastically participate, a successful word-of-mouth message must hit the core of some higher human want. Like freedom, joy, connection, beauty, creativity, hope, giving back.

2. The person sending sending the message must be known, liked, respected, valued and trusted.
Oprah, Jamie Oliver, and Seth Godin have all those characteristics. 
The word-of-mouth receiver must want to identify with the sender and believe in what they are doing. Without these elements, that message will not trusted or spread any further.

3. The environment for change must be ripe and the fruit must be low-hanging.
Change only becomes viral when three key elements are present:

  1. There must be a compelling motivation to participate that is driven by self-interest, plus a desire to be part of something bigger than oneself.
  2. The person must believe it will be easy and fun to participate.
  3. People will feel a joyful heart connection as a result of being part of the movement.

4. Messages are born within — then passed around, within tight, trusted networks
– then made viral through social media have a greater impact than those circulated through dispersed communities (Think about the difference in hearing something from someone you know, like and trust, vs. someone you don’t know, like or trust).

When businesses use these powerful forces to pursue excellence in the word-of-mouth managing people model, the benefits are huge.

Many managers don’t understand the potential of, nor to they have the skills to actively use the word-of-mouth managing model as it’s seen in an old-world and what is now an unsophisticated approach to marketing.

The fastest, easiest way to get over this lack of tools is to engage Gen Y’s and Millennials in the process – they love this stuff and will do the heavy lifting.

Here’s how it starts on the ground: http://bit.ly/9U1v20

Are you ready to use the pull vs. push to spread the word?

Basic Human Principle:

We behave in our best interests when we:

  • Increase our competencies;
  • Are aligned with our personal and business values; and…
  • Choose to be engaged.

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From Dr. Jim Sellner, PhD., DipC. — working with Zoomers & Super Zoomer managers to
 experience more joy, health and a sense of abundance.
Should they choose to take the assignment.

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What Emotionally Intelligent People Want

Sunday, April 18th, 2010

Most of the things that emotionally intelligent people want in the workplace are the same things that we want in our lives in general. (more…)

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April 15th Links

Monday, April 12th, 2010

Why do this?

http://www.rainmakerthinking.com/NL_backissue_2010-March18.php

Do great work

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AO_dvJ_IBhI&feature=player_embedded

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Grab the Brass Ring

Sunday, April 4th, 2010

As business owners, we are always on the look out for profitable opportunities.

Taking advantage of an opportunity requires 4 things: (more…)

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7 Principles to Live By

Sunday, March 14th, 2010

Recently, George announced his retirement after 30 years running the customer experience unit..

His has had an important voice. A man courageous enough to challenge “in-the-box-thinking.”

He has been a valuable, respected mentor to many.

Here are the top 7 things people say they learned from him.

1. Have the courage to care enough to speak up.

  • Develop your relationships with clients because you care what happens to them.

2. Build a core set of expertise because it intrigues you.

3. Mentor someone because you’ll learn something.

  • Many “old sods” check their passion at the door.
  • Don’t do it! it might kill you. Worse yet, you’ll become boring, even to yourself!

4. Engage with passion. Cruising grinds down into being obsolete.

  • Pretend you’re always in the midst of a dynamic career.
  • Have a personal plan and work it.

5. Pass on highly repetitive work to “newbies” so they learn the basic principles.

  • It’s the antidote to “psychosclerosis” — hardening of the mind.

6. Be your values. Stand for what matters.

7. Periodically challenge and confront people with respect and grace to find out who’s still awake.

From Dr. Jim Sellner, PhD.,DipC. — working with Zoomers & Super Zoomers business leaders so they can experience more possibilities for experiencing more joy, health and a sense of abundance. Dr. Jim is author of Leadership for Einstein’s: Bringing Out the Genius in People While Becoming Great Yourself.

He co-leads Brains’ Trusts Peer Groups for CEO’s and executives in Vancouver, BC.

Dr Jim is author of “The Phallic Imperative: Why Men Are Hard to Get Along With!?”

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5 Ways to Get Employees to Take Ownership

Thursday, February 25th, 2010

1. Involve people in long and short-term planning efforts. Key: Set “The Deal.”

2. Ask for their input on projects — give ‘em space to learn and hold them as responsible.

3. Include Competent, motivated, Experienced people on top-level discussions, conferences and meetings.

4. Encourage people to talk at conferences, Rotary meets, Chambers of Commerce about the company’s wins & losses — teach them how to do this well.

5. Don’t just ask for opinions, implement what you can and give over the responsibility for them implementing stuff.

From Dr. Jim Sellner, PhD.,DipC. — working with Zoomers & Super Zoomers business leaders so they can experience more possibilities for experiencing more joy, health and a sense of abundance. Dr. Jim is author of Leadership for Einstein’s: Bringing Out the Genius in People While Becoming Great Yourself.

He co-leads Brains’ Trusts Peer Groups for CEO’s and executives in Vancouver, BC.

Dr Jim is author of “The Phallic Imperative: Why Men Are Hard to Get Along With!?”

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