Archive for the ‘joy’ Category

$4.50 will get me a latte at Starbucks.

Sunday, June 27th, 2010

External Validation Is Dangerous . . .

to your healthy, joyful sense of Self. (more…)

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I Am Already Born.

Friday, June 25th, 2010

First Question to Self: “When am I going to start acting like it?”

Believing that I am a faceless cog in a benevolent or malevolent universe that either: (more…)

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Risk, Trust, and Relationships

Thursday, June 24th, 2010

Particularly as it applies to business partnerships and marriage.

Recently two friends of mine got divorced after about 8 months of marriage. Both of these guys are in their 60’s. I also, at 65, ended a business partnership after 4  years of turmoil. You’d think we’d learn!

Reflecting on these events during my 6-day bike trip in Croatia on those 6km long, winding switch-back uphills in 90-degree weather I came up with the following: (more…)

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Happy At Work

Monday, June 21st, 2010

I have just returned from THE BEST vacation. EVER!

A 6-day bike tour with Vermont Bike Tours on the islands of
Brac and Hvar in Croatia.

So it is easy this first day back in my office to agree with John Ruskin (with apologies)

To be happy in my work, three things are needed: (more…)

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American Idol: And The Winners Are…

Friday, May 28th, 2010

Two years in a row now, the American viewers of American Idol have picked the
second best entertainer as their American Idol. Now, we must remember that the difference
between the winner and loser in a total of 40 some million votes is about 2% at most.

Why is this? (more…)

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American Idol, Dancing With The Stars, & Genius

Thursday, May 27th, 2010

The leadership and development shown in American Idol and Dancing With The Stars
is about taking ordinary people and inspiring, leading and encouraging them
to do extra-ordinary things. (more…)

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7 Principles to Live By

Sunday, March 14th, 2010

Recently, George announced his retirement after 30 years running the customer experience unit..

His has had an important voice. A man courageous enough to challenge “in-the-box-thinking.”

He has been a valuable, respected mentor to many.

Here are the top 7 things people say they learned from him.

1. Have the courage to care enough to speak up.

  • Develop your relationships with clients because you care what happens to them.

2. Build a core set of expertise because it intrigues you.

3. Mentor someone because you’ll learn something.

  • Many “old sods” check their passion at the door.
  • Don’t do it! it might kill you. Worse yet, you’ll become boring, even to yourself!

4. Engage with passion. Cruising grinds down into being obsolete.

  • Pretend you’re always in the midst of a dynamic career.
  • Have a personal plan and work it.

5. Pass on highly repetitive work to “newbies” so they learn the basic principles.

  • It’s the antidote to “psychosclerosis” — hardening of the mind.

6. Be your values. Stand for what matters.

7. Periodically challenge and confront people with respect and grace to find out who’s still awake.

From Dr. Jim Sellner, PhD.,DipC. — working with Zoomers & Super Zoomers business leaders so they can experience more possibilities for experiencing more joy, health and a sense of abundance. Dr. Jim is author of Leadership for Einstein’s: Bringing Out the Genius in People While Becoming Great Yourself.

He co-leads Brains’ Trusts Peer Groups for CEO’s and executives in Vancouver, BC.

Dr Jim is author of “The Phallic Imperative: Why Men Are Hard to Get Along With!?”

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Leadership: Vision – Create Your Future

Wednesday, January 13th, 2010

Leaders must have…

Vision — this is where i/we want to be by … — to live by.

But that Vision needs to be anchored in … (more…)

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Your Past is Your Future’s Fertilizer

Monday, January 11th, 2010

Your Past is NOT Your Future …

Your past fertilizes your future growth. (more…)

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MMX Into Decade Ahead of Things Subject2Change

Sunday, January 3rd, 2010

2010 – 2020

Think back to 2000. The dot com’s were in the tank. No twitter. Social media 2.0 was just a twinkle in somebody’s brain. Facebook!? LinkedIn?? Twin Towers Blown to smithereens! A black man in the oval office.

As the song goes,

“There’s something happening here . What it is ain’t exactly clear. There’s a man with a gun over there . Telling me I got to beware …
Paranoia strikes deep. Into your life it will creep. It starts when you’re always afraid …”

If we get clear that everything is subject2change we do not have to succumb to paranoia.

We can keep our eyes and ears wide open.

Adopt. Adapt. Learn. Un-learn. Re-learn.

New-Old-Familiar re-arrange to subject it to change. Check this out.

Anxiety is the price of denial, the result of mentally freezing, or what i call psychosclerois.  Use the unknown to find your internal strength of character.

Heartbeats are one’s ultimate personal, non-renewable resource. Do not succumb to someone else telling you how to use them.

Make this your decade of courage, curiosity, integrity, energy and re-generation – only, of course if you choose to take the assignment.

From Dr. Jim Sellner, PhD.,DipC. — working with Zoomers & Super Zoomers business leaders so they can experience more possibilities for experiencing more joy, health and a sense of abundance.

Dr. Jim is author of Leadership for Einstein’s: Bringing Out the Genius in People While Becoming Great Yourself.
He co-leads Brains’ Trusts Peer Groups for CEO’s and executives.

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